Hello dear heart,
Today of ideas and tricks. I want to share something that keeps me busy and touching when I read our emails.
In the past few days, several customer messages have reached us again that show me that an incredible amount of uncertainty is on the move.
They contain messages like:
- "At what time of day can I smoke?"
- "When can I ...?"
- "Is it ok if I used more than 3 sprays from ...?"
- "Can I also drink cocoa alone or do I have to take part in a ceremony?"
- "I treated myself to a second cup of cocoa today, do you think that is dangerous?"
- "Can I ... XY natural product, tea, lemon, take, I take high -dose medication every day, does that harm me?"
In advance:
Please do not misunderstand: I am glad that you give us so much trust, and to ask such and sometimes very personal questions.
At the same time, it also makes me very sad, because I feel, read and hear from these questions that many programming is anchored here and it feels tight.
It always shows me how much we have lost trust in ourselves and in the gifts of nature.
I fought my whole life to form my own opinion for myself, my truth and freedom.
To be able to do what I want and to break out of what others expect from me and wanted to sell me as good and right for me.
I have always encouraged my course participants to act out of themselves.
I even ask my course participants to go to their own ability to act. This is also what our shop should reflect.
We make you, very consciously, an offer in which you are free to choose.
To take the first steps, try yourself and find your own way!
This is the claim with which we founded the conscious-kreis.de and that has always been the approach when I worked as a coach.
Of course you have to be ready to do so. Be ready to deviate from the path of expectations, to try yourself, to feel yourself and to feel yourself in yourself.
Sometimes that's not easy. Especially when there were so many in our lives that wanted exactly the opposite of us.
Even our school system rarely encourages to form your own opinion and to expand and grow beyond the servant's box.
Deep questions, questioning, trying out is rarely desired.
A no, to love myself because I can't hold it, wear, feel, not desired.
But, I can say at this point:
It's time!
It's time that you ...
- feel back into you again.
- Take care of you and your feelings and sensations.
- Do what you do!
- Hedding a learned question and transforming so that it suits you.
Of course it is simply to make money when I say the following things to a customer:
- If you do ... Xzy, you need ... otherwise ....
- We have to see the following problem again ... XYZ ...
- Ooooh ... it can take, you have to ...
- So, I'm sure you ... XYZ ... need and ... 1-2-3 ...
- On ....... passes ..... if you don't
- Oh, yes…. Daaaas is a deep -fitting problem, this is a heavy transformation process ... It will take time !!!
- If you don't ... then ... that
And then? You understand, I think what I want to go? I can then sell more product, more coaching hours or whatever. Certainly also a kind of customer loyalty.
I, very personally, ask myself the following questions in such statements (Formulated deliberately here):
- Is there a lack of training / qualifications to solve the knowledge / problem or is it deliberately formulated?
- Is a provider is a neck cutter?
- Doesn't he like people that he would like to have them bathed in the problem?
- Is he alone and can't he endure if his customers leave him happily?
- Has he not outgrown the school system and really believe in his dogmatic scheme?
- Really now?
Sorry! NO! Not here!
So why do I get sooooo far?
Because I want to inspire you to think.
I want you to Your own ability.
We look forward to coming back! Don't get me wrong!
It's great when you like our products, you try, try and find out what is good for you and what is not.
But it is not great if you impose new problems, rules, restrictions and limits.
This offers the provider the opportunity to make more money because you always have a new problem to solve, but what does that do to you and what does that say about us?
So please:
If you have the need that you feel that it is now - at this moment - good, then do it 😉
We will not impose any rules on you, even if you ask for it so much.
We will always ask you to question and break your rules.
We are happy to offer you suggestions, our own recipes as the first idea, a suggestion, pioneer.
But then…. PLEASE!
Go your way!
Feel free to use your product to use the time you enjoy or feel that it is good for you.
And who keeps you from doing something alone?
Everything is good when you are with yourself!
Let yourself be steered, follow your feeling and everything will be good, the same as you are.
Feelfree!
In love
Rena
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